Relationships and the Sacral Chakra Cont...
Dear Dana
When in the past I have been attracted to a man and it is not reciprocated, my friends always say “Oh well, it just wasn't meant to be.” It is never meant to be it seems. I am so sick of hearing it. They just don't understand at all. I know that by feeling so negative about myself I push people away and at times without even realising that is what I am doing. Part of me wants desperately to be accepted by a man - with all my faults - and another part of me just wants to be alone. When I do find myself attracted to a man, all my self doubts and the faults begin to rear their ugly heads. The worst part is that I believe all the negatives. Overcoming this way of thinking and feeling is going to be tough as I have always felt this way, and it has gotten progressively worse as I grow older. What do I do?
Needing a Change.
I completely understand how difficult it is to over-ride negative thoughts. A ‘trick’ I once used is to tell yourself you are doing an experiment. Just say to your mind that for one day you will not indulge in any negative thinking. Any time you catch yourself with any fears, doubts or worries just hand them to your angels and say “not today!” Then do it again the next day... and the next. One day at a time, you will eventually see a difference in your thought patterns, and ultimately it will become very hard to hold a negative thought.
I also know what hearing “it wasn’t meant to be” over again feels like. It’s ok to have a good yell at the universe sometimes! There is a book called Hot Chocolate for the Mystical Lover – 101 Soulmate Stories by Arielle Ford. It is filled with the most amazing true stories of soulmates connecting, usually after they have had to endure much patience and challenge beforehand. Thanks for writing in, and for sharing your story.
Blessings, Dana
Dana Mrkich is a writer, energy reader and spiritual intuitive. She specializes in Email Readings, channeling guidance from your guides and higher consciousness. Her first book A New Chapter is due out later this year. For more info or to book a reading please visit: www.danamrkich.com or email dana@danamrkich.com
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