Experimentation - Are you game?
Marriage is a life-long commitment and just as communication in the relationship is important so is keeping the love and lust alive! Too many marriages fall apart due to insufficient intimacy, so reigniting the passion and bringing excitement back is the key to a blissful marriage.
Shesaid spoke with Adultshop.com's sexpert for a little sexy advice.
What are some of the benefits of experimentation?
Whether you’ve been married for one year or 20, experimentation allows couples to truly explore each other in ways that nothing else can. Through experimenting we learn our likes and dislikes, what our partner likes and dislikes and most importantly it gives us the opportunity to push beyond our ordinary boundaries, into new and exciting territory!
Do you think that more people are becoming adventurous?
Definitely! The evolution of product lines is an ideal indication of the demand felt by couples keen to try new things in order to spice up their sex life. With help from T.V shows like Sex and the City, talking about sex with each other is no longer taboo. As a result, couples are more willing to try new things and jump (or take a step!) outside the box. But it depends on what is adventurous for the individual couple – using a couple’s sex toy for the first time may be adventurous for some, while watching an adult film together may be daring for another.
Do you have any advice for people who are a little intimidated and hesitant about trying sex toys?
Talk it through with each other first. It is definitely not a situation that can be forced or one-sided. You both need to want to do it together. After all, it’s meant to be fun and will bring a whole new dimension to their sex life!
What products can you suggest for people who are new to trying sex toys and want to start off slowly?
Familiarising yourself with your partner’s body is the best way to ease into adding sex toys into the mix. This way, you both will feel totally at ease.
“Nookii”, known worldwide as the grown up game for playful couples, allows you and your partner to work around each other’s body. With Nookii, you don’t move around a board, you move around each other, and you can choose from three levels of play – from sweetly seductive to outrageously sexy.
Our sweetly scented “Kama Sutra Oil of Love”, is lickable and gently warms when massaged into the skin. It can be massaged anywhere on the body and is the perfect introduction to a steamy rendezvous.
“I Rub My Duckie” looks innocent enough but he hides a little secret! He's a wickedly soothing, vibrating, quietly powerful and totally waterproof massager.
The “Are You A Good Lover Game” allows couples to lose a few inhibitions! As you move around the board, you are rated on how well you perform the sexy dares set out on the play cards. Grab a wine (or orange juice!) and get set to find out how good a lover you are.
The “Erotic Love Notes” reveal a spicy suggestion on every heart-shaped card, making sure you’ll never run out of sexy inspiration for keeping the lust alive! From playful to downright sizzling, each card is sure to inspire hours of erotic fun.
What would you say Adultshop.com’s five most popular items are?
For the more adventurous, our most popular toy by far is the “Clit Flicker with Wireless Stimulator”. It enhances his erection whilst enhancing her pleasure – a true couple’s toy! There are no messy wires so this beauty is completely hassle-free.
The “Adam and Eve Sound Activated Audio Erotic Egg” responds to every sound you or your partner make – it even responds to music! It’s a wonderfully powerful vibrating egg that comes with three Cyberskin pleasure sleeves and features three vibration levels. A sophisticated ‘listening chip’ responds to every sound – from breaths, to moans, to music – sending surges of powerful pleasure through the egg to whatever erogenous zone you or your partner chooses.
The “Ammunition of Love” looks sleek, non-threatening and is our best selling toy ever! This magic bullet makes an excellent couples toy. It can be used on any part of the body, from the clitoris and perineum to nipples and everywhere in between!
Have fun with each other while making your very own toy in the process! The “Clone-A-Willy Kit” contains everything needed to make an exact rubber replica of his manly member! Fun and easy to do, this great kit contains NO latex so it's completely safe and non-allergenic.
“Swiss Couples Love Ball” is perfect for couples who want to expand their repertoire of love-making. The inflatable Swiss Love Ball was designed to assist partners in creating and exploring new sexual positions. It also can increase the depth of penetration and bring new angles of stimulation into play.
What are the benefits of a mail order service?
Many people are turning to purchasing online for convenience and discretion. With products arriving two to three days after purchase, it’s a hassle-free way to access those products we might ordinarily be intimated to buy in a store.
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